The following is a list of 50 signs that your partner is a porn addict...

1. He/ she is taking their laptop or handheld device into the bathroom a lot and spending a lot of time in there.

2. Sex is dwindling. So is emotional intimacy.

3. When you do have sex he/ she is asking you to do more outrageous things - including anal sex and being photographed or filmed. You begin agreeing to do them - including bringing other people into your sexual relationship - in the hopes he/ she will want you more. You are beginning to feel like you are nothing more than a sex doll because you keep getting groped non-lovingly during sex.

4. Sex has disappeared altogether. You now beg him or her for sex when once it was the other way around. This is affecting your self esteem considerably. You blame yourself.

5. You find porn stashes hidden inside files called things like "taxes", inside golf club bags or in the ceiling tiles.

6. He/ she has no empathy towards you anymore. The beauty between you has gone.

7. Little touches that he/ she used to give you are no longer there.

8. You feel like a dark entity has entered your home.

9. You begin to drive yourself crazy trying to make yourself more sexually desirable so he/ she will want you again and begin going on diets or having cosmetic surgery or other procedures. None of it works. You have an age complex even if you are in your 20s.

10. You hear your partner masturbating next to you in bed yet that person will not have sex with you.

11. Your partner's mood is very changeable.

12. You begin to feel like you are an intruder in your own home because he/ she always seems to want you to go out and looks disappointed when you come home.

13. Porn feels like it has become "the other woman or man" - a third "person" in your relationship.

14. He/ she blames you for their porn use. Reasons range from "it's because you are fat" to "you are not sexually experimental enough" - with everything in between.

15. You do things sexually with your partner that you feel degrade you just to keep his/ her sexual interest in you.

16. You have sex multiple times a day to keep his/ her sexual interest.

17. Subscribing your partner to porn sites or going to strip clubs with the person to be a "cool partner".

18. Your partner is aroused by porn but loses arousal when touching you.

19. Your partner is unable to climax when having sex with you.

20. At times you feel like punching your partner in the face during sex.

21. Your partner is up porning until all hours of the morning and then again before work and when he/ she comes home.

22. Your partner is having webcam sex with multiple other people.

23. You sometimes feel like you want to have affairs to get even.

24. The person brings their Smart Phone to bed.

25. Looking at your partner's computer search history horrifies you at some of the things the person has been looking at - like gang rapes, barely legal porn, gay and shemale porn. You question who they are and their sexuality as a result.

26. You tell yourself that it is you who is the prude. Your partner agrees.

27. Your skincare/ baby lotion has begun disappearing.

28. You begin finding your partner in very undignified positions.

29. Your children begin to find your partner in very undignified positions.

30. You find out your partner has begun using sex chat lines.

31. Your partner takes sexual photos of you whilst you are asleep or touches you sexually whilst you are asleep.

32. Sexual photos of you turn up on the Internet without your consent.

33. You feel like you are competing with porn performers.

34. You find sexual footage your partner has taken of themselves that he/ she has shared with other people online.

35. Your digital camera goes missing.

36. You find profiles of your partner on Singles sites or adverts he/ she has put into places like Craigslist looking for sex.

37. Your partner has huge mobile phone bills.

38. He/ she is having sex with prostitutes.

39. You have become a detective. It becomes a full time job. When found out, he/ she makes you feel like you have betrayed him/ her for snooping.

40. You begin taking revenge on their methodically organised porn collection.

41. Your partner blame-shifts everything onto you. Your mind is tied in knots.

42. Your partner calls you "damaged goods".

43. He/ she tells you it's your insecurities that are the problem not the porn.

44. When he/ she does not do porn for a few days, the person is very volatile emotionally.

45. Life has become an emotional rollercoaster.

46. You are constantly lied to and this is the thing which hurts you the most. The loss of trust often feels like a death.

47. You become obsessed with thoughts of their porn viewing.

48. Your partner is sacked for porning at work.

49. You find child pornography on your partner's computer.

50. The police knock at your door and remove your partner's computer

Sexuality

As much as we love this male reproductive organ, an initial encounter with one can spark some mixed emotions. First off, if you're in the presence of one, it's very likely you're about to participate in some exciting sexy time. Score. But since his package can come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and colors, it's totally normal to have a few thoughts on the status of his junk before it all goes down. 

Here, 10 things you've definitely thought after catching a glimpse of his man-parts.

1. "Woah, I definitely should not have judged this guy on his height." Surprise — it's huge! You did not see that one coming.

2. "Score—he's a mansarder!" You're not afraid of a little fuzz, but it's definitely more enjoyable if you don't have to maneuver around those hairs. 

3. "Hmm, I've never seen that kind of curve before." Like snowflakes, fingerprints, and Beyoncé's hairstyles, no two penises are exactly alike—except maybe ones belonging to identical twins. Note to self: Google that later.

4. "It kind of looks like one of those wrinkly dogs." Turns out, this guy is uncircumcised and is hiding a tiny pug in his pants.

6. "Is that an ingrown hair, or..." Oh, man, looks like it's time for the STD talk. Better safe than sorry.

7. "OMG, this might be a genuine micropenis!" You've only read about these extremely rare peens, and now that you're face-to-face with one, you feel like you've won a sexual treasure hunt. Hopefully your prize is mind-blowing oral.

8. "Would it be weird if I named it?" Obviously it's his property—but you can't help but feel a little territorial about the thing that's going to get so well acquainted with your lady-parts.

9. "Where else has this been?" If his member could talk, you would ask it about all the locations it's explored. Hey, you're just curious. Unfortunately, you'll just have to ask your partner.

10. "Let's test this baby out." Now that you're done inspecting the goods, it’s time to take him for a test drive.

Besides, "It's go time."

Everyone wants Valentines Day to be a romantic and memorable day, and a unforgettable evening of amazing sex.

How can you ensure that mind blowing sex will be had?

Here are some Important Valentines Day survival skills and sex tips to ensure the evening will be absolutely amazing:

1. Lasting long during sex. This is hugely important for mind blowing sex. If a guy doesn't last, then sex is not going to be great, let alone good. Don't worry though, there are a few last minute things you can do.

• Creams. If you are really worried about premature ejaculation on Valentines day, then you can get some ejaculation control creams, usually sold in drugstores in the condom section. While these are not recommended for the long term, they can get you through a night or two and avoid premature ejaculation. 

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• Masturbate before sex. If you don't want to fool around with creams and want a more natural way to last long, then masturbating before hand can be your answer. It's well known that if you masturbate 30-60 minutes before sex, then you will end up lasting much longer than usual. The body is basically forced to work harder, hence you end up lasting longer.

2. Oral to the rescue. A great sex tip for Valentines Day is to employ some oral pleasure. This is a unique day and if you really want to please your partner, then oral sex never fails. If you are in a bind at how to make this a special night in the bedroom, providing oral pleasures is a great solution, but you should make sure you learn the best way to perform oral to provide the highest amount of pleasure possible.

3. Oils and Edibles. Want to really make this night special and pleasurable? Get some erotic oils and lubricants and apply them on your partner. Edibles is another excellent idea. Since this is a "sweet tooth" type day, with candies, boxes of chocolates and such, sexual edibles like whip creams and body candy will fit in perfect for this day.



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There probably is going to be more sex on Valentines Day than any other day of the year! Sex should definitely be as mind blowing and enjoyable as possible on this day.

Pregnancy, Birth and Sex Life

For men and women alike there can be much anxiety around changes in your sex life once you become pregnant and after baby is born. You have been used to a particular level of enjoyment or a particular rhythm and don't want that to change.

You and your partner have sex down to a science. In fact, it is so predictable that you know what is going to happen down to the minute. And you are bored! But before you run out and have an affair or end the relationship, give these tips a try. You may find yourself in bed with an entirely new partner.

The orgasm is the crowning of a successful and highly pleasurable session of sex. It puts a grin on the face of satisfied women and makes men walk with a swagger.  

The big "O" is the one of the most important little things in the universe and the fundamental end product of a wonderful sexual experience. 

If it wasn't for the orgasm life would be a very dull existence.

Whether things are getting a little stale in the bedroom or a man is just looking for new experiences, experimenting with sex positions can be a real treat. 

One of the nicer things a man can do for his lover, aside from following a penis care regimen that keeps the rod smooth and supple, is to surprise her with some tantalizing new tricks.

The following sex positions have unique benefits for both partners and can contribute to a more exciting sex life.

Women really like DIRTY SEX. That's the truth

Has sex for you and your partner become a little humdrum? Looking for a way to spice it up? We've collected 7 tips to get things hot and steamy for you (and your partner) tonight!

What do the words healthy, normal or regular mean to you in relation to your sex life? Those words can have many connotations when people think of sex. Often when someone is in a happy, committed relationship they rarely consider whether their sex life is healthy, normal or regular. They may discuss things casually with their friends but are often satisfied and relaxed enough not to feel the need to analyse or consider the specific benefits of a healthy sex life.