Young or old, men are constantly looking for the secrets for
making a woman fall in love with them, and to keep them in love. There
are many methods and "tricks" taught by the masters, but the real way to
get a woman and keep her is to know what her basic needs are and then
supply them on a consistent basis. If you want to keep her heart, here
are five things most women want:
1) Romance
Romance means
different things to different women. Some are impressed by a gift of
flowers or jewelry. Others don't care if they ever get flowers. Some
women think it is romantic to spend time with the children, or to repair
something that makes her life easier around the house. Learn what makes
her happy and that is romantic to her.
An evening out is very
romantic for some women and dinner out is always good. But you must plan
the place; get a babysitter, if required; let her know if it's casual
or formal so she can plan her outfit, etc. You always pay for the dinner
(nothing like, "Honey, do you have the credit card) to dampen the
evening).
2) Companionship
Women want to know that you like
being with them. This doesn't mean being with them in order to seduce
them into bed. They want to be seen as more than just a sex object. If
you just spend quality time talking or doing interesting things
together, she will value the companionship.
Also, if she confides
in you about some struggles or problems she is having, don't
automatically give advice to try to fix it. She many times just wants
someone who will listen without advising. Since a lot of men don't
listen too long before they want to fix her problem, she will often go
to girlfriends who will lend an ear. Just make sure you let them know
you are listening and that you care.
3) Physical protection
No matter how liberated women say they are, they still want to be protected by a man. This is just hardwired into them. So how do you show that you are protecting them? You don't need to know martial arts.
Just doing the little things makes them feel protected, like: stay on the outside of the sidewalk when you are out walking together; when at home, make sure the house is secure at night. You will want to check and maintain all smoke detectors in the house. Keeping the cars maintained is a way to help her feel safe, too. There is nothing like a flat tire or blown radiator to send her. Sometimes, just the little things you do can make her feel safe and protected.
4) Financial security
Contrary
to what you might think, this doesn't require a lot of wealth. Having
money to take care of basic needs and a few wants is usually fine for
most ladies. Really it comes down to do you manage the money you do have
well? Are you properly insured including life and health insurance? Do
you take care of the bills on a timely basis? Again, are the cars safe?
No matter how much money you have, if she sees that you are fair and
responsible in your handling of money, she will feel more financially
secure.
5) Praise
All women want genuine praise. Not flattery, but praise. Flattery is shallow and usually pertains to her physical appearance. Learn what praise she responds to. Pay attention to her response when you tell her something. Many women don't respond very well to compliments.
Praise, however, is appreciated because it comes from the heart and usually pertains to something non sexual. Things like how she keeps house, or her cooking, or how intelligent she is, how she looks in a dress, etc. It makes her feel like she is important to you.
Keep
in mind you don't have to be perfect at all 5 of these tips, just be
good at most of them. Learning how to read your woman and responding to
her own needs will unlock her heart. Women know when her man cares for
her and she will respond in kind to care for his needs too.
